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My Philosophy

Be it therapy or adult entertainment, I want my work to be valuable - for you, for me, and for other people.

That's why I donate on a monthly basis to the following projects:

Protect Girls from FGM in Tanzania campaigns against female genital mutilation and child marriages in Africa. Through rescues and education campaigns, this project fights for basic human rights! The bloody tradition of mutilating the genitalia of young girls is unfortunately still a reality in Africa today. The women suffer from it for their entire life and some even die during or from the very painful procedure. Let´s do something against it!

Educate and Shelter Children in Red Light District gives homing and education to children of Indian prostitutes. In India, sexworkers are part of the lowest social class. Often their children are rejected from normal schools due to their red light backround. The female children of these sexworkers often become prostitutes themselves, more by force than by choice. That´s why it is so important, that NGO´s help those children fulfill their basic needs as well as providing them with a proper education.

I also stand with:

Principles for BDSM

Hygiene and Safer Sex in a BDSM session

Disinfect your toys and play areas. Use dental dam and condoms (also for oral sex and for toys). Wear latex gloves: for anal sex, fingering and in clinic games. Change condoms and gloves after single use. Only use sterile utensils or disposable medical supplies in the Fetish Clinic. Any sexual contact without protection (condoms, dental dams, gloves) should only take place if both partners trust each other and have recently been tested for sexual diseases!

Safe, Sane and Consensual (also called SSC)

Only perform practices that you are familiar with and always play it safe. Unreasonable requests from your play partners should be rejected. Everything that happens between you is consensual. Be aware about the possible risks of the BDSM practices you engage in.

BDSM is not real: It´s play

Play can become truly arousing, truly humiliating, truly scary, and truly painful, but play partners know they can trust each other. The Top pays attention to the physical and psychological well-being of the Bottom or Sub.

Communication in a BDSM scene

Talk about taboos and preferences beforehand. Communicate in the heat of the moment: Dare to redefine your boundaries, react, play along and express your desires! The stop word "Red" ends the game immediately. "Orange" lets you communicate that you're approaching a limit, that you're uncomfortable, or that the pain is getting to be too much. "Green" means that everything is okay.

Respect for Dom and Sub

Mutual respect means respecting the boundaries of all play partners. Taboos are boundaries that are never crossed. You may find my taboos at the end of the following page:

About me

Integrated and holistic BDSM

BDSM is so much more than just genital gratification (although I value that very much and certainly don't neglect it). The whole body and also our mind become the sexual playground. Through various toys, words and scenarios, your entire being is stimulated as well. BDSM has a great effect on your emotional world, your subconscious and your self-perception and can therefore also be used therapeutically and spiritually.

Sadism, control and dominance always go hand in hand with care and love. If you want to be humiliated by me and I give you this humiliation, then this is an act of love in my opinion.